Adult dating and swinger party fun can be easily be found in Bedfordshire, even though it is the smallest of the so-called, ‘Shire Counties’.
Bedfordshire is located just on the south-eastern edge of East Anglia and about thirty miles north of London. It’s northernmost limits are often described as being in the ‘midlands’.
With a population of 192,000 people, Bedfordshire offers plenty of scope for adult dating fun but it has no cities and the majority of people live in the town of Luton which is in the south of the county. The other town of notable size is Bedford, laying some eighteen miles to the north. Smaller urban areas such as Dunstable and Leighton Buzzard are also active areas for adult dating and swinger party fun. Bedfordshire is, elsewhere, a fairly rural County bordering Northamptonshire to the north, Cambridgeshire, to the east, Hertfordshire to the south and Buckinghamshire to the west.
At first glance, sexual liberation might not be something one associates with Bedfordshire. It is famous for its puritan roots, being the birth place of John Bunyan and the place where he wrote ‘The Pilgrim’s Progress’, setting its allegorical world in the heart of the Bedfordshire landscape. A substantial Irish catholic community established itself in the Luton area throughout the 50s and 60s, whilst a large Italian catholic community exists in the Bedford area. More recently, people of Pakistani and Bangladeshi origin founded a substantial Islamic community, making the county today one of the largest Islamic populations in the U.K. Despite these built in religious barriers to sexual liberation, Bedfordshire is an active county to live and visit when it comes to finding adult dating and swinger party fun.
To get some idea of how many singles and couples in the county of Bedfordshire engage in adult dating, I first of all looked at the numbers of active members in my own adult dating club. At the time of writing this article there were 572 in total, being made up of 327 couples, 113 single females and 132 single males. Looking back at the club’s figures over the last ten years, there has at most times been around the same numbers.
The next thing I did was to check out the figures of some other leading adult dating and swinger clubs. Whilst some were a little lower, most were around the same. Allowing for the fact that many people sign up with several adult dating and swinger clubs, the total number of couples and singles actively adult dating in Bedfordshire is probably about 500 couples and 400 singles at any given time.
What this all means is that anyone living in or looking for adult dating contacts in Bedfordshire should be able to join a leading online swinger club or adult dating site and be successful in their quest for meeting other like-minded people. What the figures do not tell us is whether there are regular swinger parties in the county of Bedfordshire and if so where these are held.
Bedfordshire currently has one very well established swinger party venue. It is situated in Dunstable and operates a members-only basis. Apart from this, there are usually some privately hosted parties taking place in Bedfordshire. Being in people’s homes, invitations are made selectively to couples and singles that the hosts feel they can trust and who are likely to match their taste in both the personal and sexual-physical sense.
To receive invitations to this sort of adult party, the first step is to become a member of a swinger club or adult dating site. Once you have become a full member, the next step is to get active and make yourself known to other members. You do this mainly by taking part in chat room discussions but you need to exercise patience and introduce yourself over a period of time rather than rushing in and expecting everyone to pay attention to you straight away. You will find plenty of advice about how to do this effectively in other articles I have written. These are available on our website and elsewhere.